☆ Breaking-up a relationship

Breaking-Up

When it comes to forgetting somebody or simply ending up a relationship it is a painful and awful process, you need to think of how to get rid of that pain and not just let time pass by, because later on it is going to get you back and affect you even more.

I agree that once we are done with someone, we need to find alternatives for us to spend our time, perhaps hanging out with friends, or keeping ourselves busy most of the time then, quite so we are going to reduce the pain little by little, it is a hard thing to do, but forgetting the past and staying healthy, by not letting depression catch up with you.

In my opinion, the harder you try not to think about that, the more you actually do; and so for that reason you need to think about the future and forget about the past, sometimes you cannot take the next step because you are holding on to the past and so that will not allow you to be free and be open to new opportunities, if you want to remember the beautiful stuff you did with you ex-girl or boyfriend, that is fine but you cannot expect that to reoccur, because it is over with forever, perhaps it would be a good idea to remember the reasons for which led to the break-up, and to start looking for a better choice. Being friends with an ex is not a good idea at all and I say that based on a personal experience, it is always better to stay away from that person for a long time until you feel that you are ready to talk to him or her without any hard feelings or resentments for not giving the healing process enough time to work out. After the process is over and you feel you are ready, you can even be friends again, without any mixed emotions and perhaps you will even have a better healthier relationship than before, but sometimes it is just better not to have any contact with you ex at all.

Every relationship you have with someone it is a great experience to think about, because you learn a lot,you have new stories to tell, new adventures, and even you get to know yourself a little bit more, you cannot say that it was waste of time. Sometimes we need to understand that although what happened was horrible, you learned from that experience and you will not let that happen again, also you will be ready if something similar happens later.

Thank you J